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Self Sabotaging; How to Break The Cycle
self-sabotage is when someone knowingly or unknowingly undermines their own efforts or success. it’s like shooting yourself in the foot, preventing yourself from reaching goals or experiencing happiness due to negative behaviors, thoughts, or actions. avoiding self-sabotage often involves cultivating self-awareness and implementing strategies to counteract negative patterns. here are some tips: recognize situations, thoughts,…
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Random thoughts Tuesday
i used to wonder if i’d ever meet him, if he’d ever find me. what if he found me at my worst? what if he didn’t get to meet my boobs while they were still perfect, perky, and supple? i knew he wouldn’t mind, and i also knew he’d be a good man. but then,…
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I promised y’all a weekly recap, so here it is:
After Easter, I left home to visit a friend I haven’t seen in a while. Despite some struggles, I managed to hit my goal of 10 podcast episodes per month-yay! Check out the latest one below (zenbehavior podcast) and share the love. This week, I focused on sending out job applications for opportunities in brand…
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You’ll never truly understand
love. Loneliness. Breakups. Sex. Sex addiction. Abusive relationships. Marriages. Divorces. The inability to conceive and bear children. Pregnancy. Child birth. Miscarriage. Unwanted pregnancy. Rape. Abortion. Death of a loved one. Hatred. Being sick. Being responsible for a sick person. Parenting. Growing up in a tough household. Living in abject poverty. Living in affluence. Until you’ve…
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I hope you find that person, I hope you become that person too
i hope you find someone who speaks your language, so you don’t spend a lifetime translating your soul. i hope you find someone who embodies peace, so you don’t spend a lifetime longing for a sense of safety or security. i hope you find someone who knows abundance, so you don’t spend a lifetime drowning…
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things i find more intimate than seggs:
smiling into my eyes, kissing my lips while I’m asleep, random sneaky touches, lingering states, stealing glances and sharing sexy smiles when caught, uncontrollable laughter together, staring into each other’s eyes without saying a word, dancing and being goofy together, holding my arm/hand, tiny, specific but unique compliments that come from the heart, going on…
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unbecome to become
to become something, you must first unbecome a lotta things. you have to unbecome the person: who sticks to just one idea, who lets everyone else decide how you should run your life, who eats everything, wears everything, goes everywhere. you must unbecome the person who can’t stand up for themselves. who chickens out when…
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my happiness is not dependent on your presence
I never force anyone to choose me. If you think you can find something better elsewhere, then go ahead, I’m not holding you back. Life’s too short to hang on to someone that’s not sure they want to stay. I believe in freedom and the truth of feelings. If you must stay, let it be…